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Hypnotherapy: Why it is about the thing you think it isn’t actually about

20th October 2019/in Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy/by Daniel Fryer

Hypnotherapy: What Is It Actually Like?

I’ve been in practice as a hypnotherapist since 2004. Over the years, I’ve lost count of the number of articles I’ve read on the subject, written by journalists who all seem compelled, somehow, to kick-start said article by saying, “You’d be forgiven for thinking that hypnosis is all about swinging pocket watches and pendulums, but it isn’t.”

And, by doing so, they perpetuate the idea that, somehow, hypnotherapy is, or was at some point, all about swinging pocket watches and pendulums.

Again and again, I’ve read the same stereotype being perpetuated for over thirteen years.

Enough already!

Now, I know what you’re thinking.

You’re thinking, “Hang on a minute, but isn’t he starting his article off that way too? The hypocrite!”

Well, yes. Yes, I am.

But the point really needs to be made, finally and for the last time, so that it need never be mentioned again: hypnotherapy is not about being hypnotised by a hypnotherapist with either a swinging pocket watch or a pendulum.

Except.

Except.

Except, it can be.

I have a pocket watch. A friend bought it for me as a present when I graduated from hypnotherapy college. I have hypnotised someone with it once, but only because they asked me to.

I’ve also hypnotised someone with a sonic screwdriver. Not a real one, mind, but one of those £10 plastic replicas. But that was only because A: I had one in my possession at the time and B: the person concerned was a Doctor Who fan and was absolutely over the moon when I waggled it in front of him.

The point of swinging pocket watches, pendulums, sonic screwdrivers, or anything else waved rhythmically in front of someone’s eyes is to encourage them to focus their attention. Eye fixation can be used as one way of inducing hypnosis.

You can also induce hypnosis by having someone focus on the palm of your hand, the back of their hand, a spot on the wall, or even by holding their arm in the air. You can use the sound of your voice, or a specific sound around them. There are many ways to achieve the same thing: helping someone focus their attention and begin to relax.

This process is often known as inducing trance. Once someone enters a hypnotic state, the experience can be deepened if appropriate. The therapeutic work can then take place.

So, to journalists everywhere, I say this: you’ll be forgiven for thinking that hypnotherapy is all about swinging pocket watches and pendulums because it can be.

And now that you know that, you need never kick off an article about hypnotherapy that way again.

Much to the relief of actual hypnotherapists everywhere.

Now, do not get me started on that old, “Look into my eyes, not around the eyes, in the eyes, you’re under” malarkey.

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Men Need Therapy Too!

2nd September 2013/in Anxiety, CBT, Confidence, Depression, Men, Psychotherapy, REBT, Relationships, Self-esteem/by Daniel Fryer

Heartthrob actor and Twilight star, Robert Pattinson (or RPatz) has just popped up in the press saying he suffers from anxiety and struggles with his looks (click here). These days, the media focus as much attention on the naked male physique, as they do on the female form. And, so men are suffering from similar psychological problems, only they’re doing less about it. Read more

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Depression: It’s not Always as Bad as it Sounds

21st August 2013/in CBT, Depression, Psychotherapy, REBT/by Daniel Fryer

According to research, up to one in five people in Britain are affected by depression at some point in their lives and the use of anti-depressants has reached an all-time high. The word itself has become frightening, even depressing in itself. However, there are many types of depression, including reactive depression, the treatment of which does not necessarily require medication. Read more

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Hypnotherapy: how to avoid the clichés

8th April 2013/in Goals, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, Psychotherapy/by Daniel Fryer

Recently, as part of research for his role in the hypnosis-led thriller Trance, actor James McAvoy spent time with a hypnotherapist, but failed to achieve a state of hypnosis [click here]. “I was very keen to be suggested,” he said, “to have somebody tell me to run naked or cluck like a chicken or whatever, but it didn’t work for me.” And, therein lies the rub. I would argue that hypnosis failed due to his expectations.  Read more

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