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Hypnotherapy Helps With Almost Everything
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/0 Comments/in Anxiety, CBT, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, Mental Health, REBT, Stress, Work Stress/by Daniel FryerHypnotherapy: Icebergs and Hidden Depths
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Quite often in psychology they compare the mind to an iceberg in the ocean. It was Freud who originally came up with the analogy. But why, and what purpose does it serve?
Well, very simply put, there is about ten percent of an iceberg above the waterline. You can see it. But, there’s about 90 per cent of that iceberg hidden below the waterline, and you can’t see it. It’s what can make them quite tricky buggers (or bergs) to navigate.
And there are two parts to your mind (again, very simply put): the conscious and the unconscious, but it’s not a fifty-fifty split.
Which is where that analogy comes in.
Your conscious mind is like the ten percent part of the iceberg visible above the waterline. It’s responsible for all your short-term memory ‘stuff.’ It’s responsible for your everyday thoughts. It’s the part of you that remembers that appointment you have at 1.30pm (if you remember that appointment, that is) and that phone number you only need to use once. It’s also the part of you that remembers to pick up a loaf of bread on the way home from work because your other half asked you to (and, because it’s cheeky and not entirely reliable, it sometimes only reminds you of that just as you cross the threshold to your home). And it’s also the logical, rational and analytical part of your mind.
But, what about the hidden bit?
What is actually going on with the 90 percent of the iceberg below the waterline? What is your unconscious mind responsible for?
Well, the short answer is, “everything else.”
Right now, as you read this article, you are blinking and breathing and regulating your body temperature, together with a thousand other process that you don’t consciously think about: your unconscious mind simply takes care of the for you. But, it’s also the database of everything you are. Everything you’ve ever learned and experienced, all of your skills and habits and all that you have seen and done.
To put it into a context, a 2017 study by tech giant Huawei found that whilst the brain actually makes around 35000 decisions every single day, we’re only ever conscious about a hundred of them. Most of our daily decisions then are made by the unconscious. We are not consciously aware of them. That means there’s a hell of a lot going on with that hidden beneath the surface part of you.
Now, a very nice thing happens in hypnotherapy and it happens to your mind. Hypnosis itself is a trance-like state, very similar to nodding off, daydreaming or losing yourself in a really good book. In this nice-and-dreamy, trance-like state, your conscious mind becomes more passive. It kind of takes a back seat for a while. When that happens, the unconscious part of your mind (that big old database of everything you are) becomes more alert and receptive to positive suggestions.
Especially when those suggestions are tied to goals you already know you want to achieve.
So, in a hypnotherapy session, the hypnotherapist can communicate directly with your unconscious mind and suggest new thoughts, feelings, behaviours and ideas. And these suggestions take hold because you are motivated for change; they take hold because those suggestions are totally in line with what you want to happen and how you want to be.
Pretty cool, huh?
Hypnotherapy: Why it is about the thing you think it isn’t actually about
/in Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy/by Daniel FryerHypnotherapy: What Is It Actually Like?
I’ve been in practice as a hypnotherapist since 2004. Over the years, I’ve lost count of the number of articles I’ve read on the subject, written by journalists who all seem compelled, somehow, to kick-start said article by saying, “You’d be forgiven for thinking that hypnosis is all about swinging pocket watches and pendulums, but it isn’t.”
And, by doing so, they perpetuate the idea that, somehow, hypnotherapy is, or was at some point, all about swinging pocket watches and pendulums.
Again and again, I’ve read the same stereotype being perpetuated for over thirteen years.
Enough already!
Now, I know what you’re thinking.
You’re thinking, “Hang on a minute, but isn’t he starting his article off that way too? The hypocrite!”
Well, yes. Yes, I am.
But the point really needs to be made, finally and for the last time, so that it need never be mentioned again: hypnotherapy is not about being hypnotised by a hypnotherapist with either a swinging pocket watch or a pendulum.
Except.
Except.
Except, it can be.
I have a pocket watch. A friend bought it for me as a present when I graduated from hypnotherapy college. I have hypnotised someone with it once, but only because they asked me to.
I’ve also hypnotised someone with a sonic screwdriver. Not a real one, mind, but one of those £10 plastic replicas. But that was only because A: I had one in my possession at the time and B: the person concerned was a Doctor Who fan and was absolutely over the moon when I waggled it in front of him.
The point of swinging pocket watches, pendulums, sonic screwdrivers, or anything else waved rhythmically in front of someone’s eyes is to encourage them to focus their attention. Eye fixation can be used as one way of inducing hypnosis.
You can also induce hypnosis by having someone focus on the palm of your hand, the back of their hand, a spot on the wall, or even by holding their arm in the air. You can use the sound of your voice, or a specific sound around them. There are many ways to achieve the same thing: helping someone focus their attention and begin to relax.
This process is often known as inducing trance. Once someone enters a hypnotic state, the experience can be deepened if appropriate. The therapeutic work can then take place.
So, to journalists everywhere, I say this: you’ll be forgiven for thinking that hypnotherapy is all about swinging pocket watches and pendulums because it can be.
And now that you know that, you need never kick off an article about hypnotherapy that way again.
Much to the relief of actual hypnotherapists everywhere.
Now, do not get me started on that old, “Look into my eyes, not around the eyes, in the eyes, you’re under” malarkey.
Travel in Time with Hypnotherapy
/in Chronic Pain, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, Psychotherapy/by Daniel FryerYes, you read that right.
With hypnosis and hypnotherapy, you can revisit the past and visit the future as often as is needed (therapeutically speaking) via regression techniques (to the past) and with what is known as pseudo orientation in time (to the future). But, why would you do so? Read more
Hypnotherapy: Here to Help you Shed those Pounds
/in Addictions, CBT, Habits, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, Men, REBT, Weight Control/by Daniel Fryer
Hypnotherapy is an altered state of consciousness, very similar to daydreaming, or losing yourself in a really good book. In this trance-like state, your unconscious mind becomes very susceptible to positive suggestion, especially when those suggestions are tied to a goal you already know you want to achieve. When it comes to weight loss, whether you goal is to shed a few pounds or a few stone, you’ll be amazed at what a good hypnotherapist can help you with. Read more
Hypnotherapy to Stop Smoking: Can it Help you Quit?
/in Addictions, Alcohol, CBT, Habits, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, Stop Smoking/by Daniel Fryer
October is nearly upon us, and what an auspicious month it is. Not only does it contain Halloween and my mum’s birthday (Happy Birthday, Mum!), but it’s also the month of Stoptober.
Every October, the NHS invites smokers to quit as part of its annual Stoptober campaign. But can it be done? Can you successfully ditch the cigarettes and remain a non-smoker? The short answer is yes.
Treating Phobias: Help is at Hand
/in Anxiety, CBT, Confidence, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, Men, Mental Health, Mind, News, Panic Attacks, Phobias, Psychotherapy, REBT, Self-esteem/by Daniel FryerA Northern Illinois University (NIU) graduate in psychology has developed a measurement of fear, a unique psychological tool that could not only open up new areas of phobia research, but also be of use to therapists and other mental health professionals (click here). But, what is a phobia, and how can you deal with it if you have one? Read more
Fear of Flying: It Can Be Controlled
/in Anxiety, CBT, Fear of flying, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, Phobias/by Daniel FryerAt this time of year, with winter a wet and distant memory and spring definitely springing, a lot of thoughts are turning to foreign holidays. And so, it’s about this time of year I see an increase in people wanting help with their fears of flying (even more so since the disappearance of Malaysia Airlines Flight MH370). This increase in anxiety has even been noted in the press (click here). But fear not, for help is at hand! Read more







