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Hypnotherapy Helps With Almost Everything

27th June 2025/0 Comments/in Anger, Anger Management, Anxiety, Bullying, CBT, Chronic Pain, Coaching, Confidence, Depression, Fear of flying, Gay, Goals, Habits, Health, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, LGBTQIA, Men, Mental Health, Mind, Online Therapy, Online therapy, Pain Control, Web Therapy, Work Stress/by Daniel Fryer

Hypnotherapy is undergoing a bit of a renaissance right now. Around the world, people are remembering it as an effective method for managing many things. This includes post-surgical recovery, easing chronic conditions (including pain), reducing the symptoms of stress and burnout, dealing with mental health diagnoses such as anxiety, depression and OCD, and on to building confidence and focus, as well as working on other life coaching goals. It can even help you improve the health of your energetic body (think meridians and chakras). And, if you are on a spiritual path (Druid, Shaman, Wiccan, Buddhist and so on), it can even help you with that.

The BBC magazine Science Focus recently ran a piece called Rethinking Hypnosis (click here), as they have just cottoned on to how good it can be and have realised that the scientific community seriously needs to investigate, not only how it works, but also what it can work on.

Not only that, but American psychiatrist Dr David Spiegel has a self-hypnosis app (Reveri) that is constantly in the news to rave reviews. It has appeared in the Financial Times, The New York Times, Women’s Health and more. You might want to click here for more info on that.

And just a few weeks ago, mental health and wellbeing magazine Happiful happily extolled the virtues of it in surgery and stomach pain management following two new studies (click here).

Plus, there’s my book, How to Cope With Almost Anything with Hypnotherapy (simple ideas to enhance your wellbeing and resilience). Published by Green Tree/Bloomsbury, it contains a ton of advice, including how to hypnotise yourself, together with 23 helpful, healing recordings. And you really do want to be clicking here for that.

Also, hypnotherapy is currently a global wellness trend. Don’t just take my word for it. There’s an in-depth industry business report that’s making that claim (click here).

This means that around the world, a lot of people seeking hypnotherapy out, either from individual hypnotherapists or as part of the wellness retreat holiday excursion. The report states that a post-Covid (and ever-increasing) awareness of what hypnotherapy can do is the main factor driving this demand.

Even the London School of Economics and Political Science (LSE) has noticed this growing popularity, especially in places such as Indonesia, where hypnotherapy is so popular, it’s almost a way of life (you know what to do). LSE researcher Dr Nicholas Long said that it “does have something to offer in terms of thinking about the mental health and wellbeing challenges that so many people are facing in the contemporary world.”

Those challenges include anxiety, depression, anger management, stress management and more. However, you can also have it for weight control, pain control and stopping smoking. You want to build coping strategies? It can do that. Achieving gnosis? It can help with that too. Whatever it is that you want, if it is not delivered in a hypnotic state, it’s not hypnotherapy.

What is it?

At its most basic, hypnotherapy is therapy conducted in a state of hypnosis. And, as you can see, there are different therapies for different things, depending on what it is you want to achieve.

Hypnosis itself is an altered state of consciousness, very similar to daydreaming or losing yourself in a really good book. In this altered state of consciousness, your unconscious mind becomes very susceptible to positive suggestion. Especially when those suggestions are tied to a goal you already know you want to achieve.

A hypnotherapist then, is someone who helps you drift into a hypnotic state, there to deliver suggestions related to your therapeutic, coaching, healing, or life goals.

And hypnotherapy works as well online as it does face-to-face which means that, when it comes to finding the right fit hypnotherapist for you, you’re not constrained by location. If you live in London and want a Bristol hypnotherapist, you can have one. Similarly, if you live in Manchester, but want a London-based hypnotherapist, you can have them too.

Live in Canada but really like the sound of that UK-based hypnotherapist that everyone has been talking about? Not a problem.

When delivered online, you just need a crystal-clear connection. In my experience, people much prefer the sound of my voice to come at them from EarPods or headphones rather than from speakers (it’s more personal and immersive that way). Apart from that, you just need to be sitting comfortably. And the therapist needs to be able to see you clearly, so a laptop or tablet is way better than a smartphone for that.

For a taste of hypnotherapy delivered by myself, please take a look my newish YouTube channel (you’ll find it here). And feel free to check in on a regular basis, as more content is being added all the time

While I don’t know what it is you want hypnotherapy for, I do know you will be jolly glad you tried it.

It’s Worth a Shot!

18th June 2025/0 Comments/in Anger, Anger Management, Anxiety, Bullying, CBT, Coaching, Confidence, Gay, Goals, Habits, Health, HR, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, Insomnia, Jealousy, LGBTQIA, Men, Mental Health, News, Online therapy, Online Therapy, Positive Psychology, Psychotherapy, REBT, Relationships, Self-esteem, Stress, Web Therapy, Work Stress/by Daniel Fryer

Say hello to my single session therapy and coaching service . . .

Do you have a very specific problem in mind, one that is causing you stress but, that you can articulate well? Is there something on the horizon that you would like to prepare for, either physically or mentally? Are you motivated to make rapid but significant changes and achieve your goals sooner rather than later?

If you have answered yes to any of the above, then One Shot might just be for you.

One Shot is a bespoke service available almost immediately, with no delays or waiting lists. If suitable, you and I agree to work together for one focussed session only, there to resolve your immediate challenges and achieve your goals.

One Shot gives you help almost right there and then; it can give you clarity and focus; it draws upon your own innate strengths and inner resources, and it gives you a concrete plan of action going forwards.

It’s not just for people who have an immediate problem, or sudden challenge that needs addressing, it is also a great preventative; a way of heading things off at the pass. We would all be in better shape, physically as well as mentally, if therapy and coaching were used as prevention rather than reparation and repair.

With a One Shot session there are three points of contact overall:

Point one:

The initial consultation. This will be undertaken either over the phone or via Zoom and will last for approximately 15 minutes. This is where we both figure out if One Shot is suitable for you. If we both agree that it is, we will book the session in and I will send you a short questionnaire to be returned in advance of the session.

Point two:

The One Shot session itself. This lasts from one-and-a-half to two hours and can involve a combination of rational emotive behaviour therapy (REBT) and positive psychology, as well as hypnotherapy. The aim is for you to leave, not only with greater insight and understanding but, also, with several key points for you to act upon. You will be sent a recording of our therapy / coaching session, together with a copy of the hypnotherapy element (if this was included in your protocol). *

Point three:

A follow up call. Either a few weeks or months following the session (at a pre-agreed time and date) I will contact you and check in on your progress following the session. Here we can discuss various things, including possible improvements, and further requirements (such as a full course of therapy if wanted).

One Shot can help with:

Anxiety
Anger Management
Adjustment difficulties
Coping with change
Dealing with uncertainty
Relationship problems
Stress in all its forms
Personal development
Decision making
Preventative mental health care
Sudden life crisis management
Building better habits
Confidence and self-worth
And more

If you are interested in One Shot, please contact me either by email at info@danielfryer.com or via
WhatsApp on +44 (0)7947 310 052

* A PDF transcript of the session can also be provided upon request, but at extra cost.

Online Hypnotherapy: Will it Work for You?

19th October 2023/0 Comments/in Anger, Anger Management, Anxiety, CBT, Confidence, Depression, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, Mental Health, Online Therapy, REBT, Self-esteem, Skype Therapy, Web Therapy/by Daniel Fryer

A few weeks ago now, I wrote an article for Psychology Today on the benefits of online therapy and how studies show that it is as equally effective as psychotherapy delivered face-to-face (click here). Since that article went live, I’ve had a fair few emails asking if that also applied to hypnotherapy. And the short answer to that question is, “yes.’”

During the pandemic, hypnotherapists had to switch their clinics to an entirely online affair whether people liked it or not. Since then, as with other forms of therapy, some therapists have remained entirely online whilst others have offered both face-to-face and web therapy.

And whilst official studies into hypnotherapy delivered over digital platforms are few and far between (at least, as far as I know, so feel free to correct me if I am wrong), one study showed that it was effective in treating migraines (click here), whilst another suggested it was effective on children presenting with nocturnal enuresis, or bed wetting (click here).

On the anecdotal front, one magazine editor happily wrote about her experience with digitally delivered hypnotherapy (click here) whilst another espoused the joys of her FaceTime Hypnotherapy session (click here). Plus, there are a plethora of successful hypnotherapy apps available that simply require you to sit back and enjoy some beneficial suggestions delivered via your smartphone or tablet.

I know from experience that the one form of hypnotherapy is is just as effective as the other as I’ve been delivering it online for years now, since way before Coronavirus forced the first UK lockdown back in March 2020.

Quite early on in my therapy career (some 19 years or so at the time of writing), someone asked if they could continue seeing me whilst work sent them away across Europe to a variety of locations. I mainly saw them in various hotels rooms, but also once by a large and empty pool and another time on a patio with a glorious mountain in the background. Back then it was Skype rather than Zoom but, the wide variety of backdrops, both panoramic and otherwise, did nothing to hamper our work together.

At the end of the day (or beginning, or middle, or whenever you see fit to see your hypnotherapist) it all comes down to a matter of choice and/or preference. Some people prefer digital (or are constrained by other factors) whilst some prefer to see their therapist for real.

Reasons for wanting to see a hypnotherapist online include factors such as convenience, schedules, work/life balance management, the ability to choose a therapist from further afield (not just nationwide but other countries), enjoying the comfort of your own home, mobility issues, and more.

Web delivered hypnotherapy is just as effective as live hypnotherapy in treating a wide range of issues including stress (life stress, work stress, burnout syndrome, and so on), as well as anxiety disorders, reactive depression, anger-management, self-esteem and confidence issues, weight control, pain control and the like.

If you are thinking of digital hypnotherapy, there are a few things to consider in advance:

A good connection (this is vital for any form of online psychotherapy) enables every hypnotic suggestion to be delivered clearly and precisely
A good screen size (so laptops and tablets are preferable to smartphones)
A comfy chair (the comfier the better)
A blanket (if you like to be all warm and snuggly)
Good quality speakers (good quality headphones are even better)
Somewhere safe, private, and secure (it’s a therapy session, after all, and you will want to keep things confidential)

Another thing to consider is the severity of the problem. If you are at high-risk of suicide or self-harm, one-to-one live therapy with a nearby therapist plus a clear care plan discussed and agreed by you both is a better fit for you, no matter what modality of therapy is on offer. But, for anything at the mild-to-moderate end of the spectrum, you should be good to go.

If you would like to see me for online hypnotherapy, or even online rational emotive behaviour therapy (REBT), for that matter, my contact details are at the bottom of this page.

Finally, if you’re wondering, REBT is a rather nifty and elegant form of cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) that works well on everything mentioned above (stress management, anxiety issues, confidence issues and so on), either on its own or in conjunction with hypnotherapy.

Where Does the Time Go?

21st September 2023/0 Comments/in Anxiety, Coaching, Goals, Hypnotherapy, Online Therapy, Positive Psychology, Psychotherapy, REBT, Skype Therapy, Stress, Web Therapy/by Daniel Fryer

Can it really be three years and five months since I last blogged on my own website? The answer to that question, going by the dates, is obviously yes. Yes, it has been more than three years.

Okay, in that time, I wrote and published one book (you can find a link to it here) and I’ve been writing a regular column over at Psychology Today (you can click on that here) and I’ve also been writing elsewhere (you can check a selection of those articles out here) but, still. Three years.

It’s been a tad remiss of me and so, to address that imbalance, I am going back to blogging on my own website where, over the coming months, I will hopefully be not only offering words of wisdom, but also helpful tips, exercises, and insights to help you manage your mental health and wellbeing that much better. After all, it’s a stressful world out there. So much so, that I’ve had to slightly redefine what it is that I offer (or, more importantly, what it is I treat).

I offer rational emotive behaviour therapy (REBT) and clinical hypnotherapy (either separately or combined) together with elements of positive psychology and I offer it in both a psychotherapeutic and coaching capacity.

Times past, I said I specialised in the treatment of anxiety disorders and work-related stress management as, at the time, I was receiving more referrals for these things than anything else. So, that is how and where I built my areas of expertise. I can also help you with pain control, but that’s another story.

Meanwhile, back to stress.

Since the pandemic and everything else that came after it, I’ve just accepted the fact that I am now a stress specialist. This still covers anxiety disorders and work-related stress management but, also a whole host of other things (more of that in another blog, I reckon).

“Stress,” is what people state the most when I ask them what they want help with. “I want you to help me manage my stress more effectively,” they say. And this I can do.

People also ask me to provide them with coping strategies (again, this I can do) but, when I used to ask them what they wanted those coping strategies for, they used to mention specific things, such as “my job,” or “my boss” or “my relationship” or “my challenging friend.” Nowadays, however, when I ask people what they want those coping strategies for, the most common response is, “everything.”

Despite all the strides made in mental health and wellbeing, despite the mine of information and the wealth of support that is out there, life has become even more stressful, not less so. And people need help in dealing with that.

To that end, my next book (out Spring 2024) is called How to Cope with Almost Anything with Hypnotherapy. And it will do just what the title suggests, using not only hypnotherapy, but also elements of REBT and positive psychology to help you increase your resilience, improve your wellbeing, and handle whatever life throws at you next more effectively.

In the meantime, I can personally help you cope with almost anything either face-to-face or online. And a recent study (click here) has found that online therapy is just as effective as face-to-face therapy.

People also value the convenience of it and the ability to engage with a therapist from the comfort of their own homes. So too do many of the therapists that offer online therapy.

So, face-to-face, or online, if there is stress in your life, if there is something you would like help in coping with, now is a good time to start. Because life always has that something to throw at you.

Think of a Therapist as a Mechanic for your Mind

27th April 2018/in Coaching, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, Men, Mental Health, Mind, Psychotherapy, REBT, Skype Therapy, Unconscious, Web Therapy/by Daniel Fryer

Some people are a little put off by psychotherapy, and so approach it with caution, while others are too scared to go for therapy at all, even though they know they need it. There’s still a lot of stigma attached to mental health issues, but therapy need not be such a scary thing. As the self-development guru, Wayne Dyer, once famously said, “when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” Read more

Therapy: Physical Fitness for your Mind

15th November 2016/in CBT, Coaching, Goals, Habits, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, LGBTQIA, Men, Mental Health, Mind, Online Therapy, Psychotherapy, REBT, Skype Therapy, Web Therapy/by Daniel Fryer

Despite the best efforts of the media and mental health professionals there is still, sadly, as stigma surrounding mental health. Many people regard psychotherapy and counselling sessions with fear and trepidation. But, there is a different view you can take. As the old adage says, “when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” Time then, to think of a therapist as nothing more than a fitness instructor for your mind. Read more

Brand New Bristol Based Therapist

2nd November 2016/in Addictions, Alcohol, Anger, Anger Management, Anxiety, Bullying, CBT, Chronic Pain, Coaching, Confidence, Cyber Bullying, Depression, Fear of flying, Frontpage Article, Gay, Goals, Habits, HR, Humour, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, Images, Insomnia, Jealousy, LGBTQIA, Men, Mental Health, Mind, News, Online Therapy, Pain Control, Panic Attacks, Panic Disorder, Phobias, Psychosexual Dysfunction, Psychotherapy, REBT, Relationships, Self-esteem, Skype Therapy, Stigma, Stop Smoking, Uncategorized, Unconscious, Web Therapy, Weight Control, Work Stress/by Daniel Fryer

Well, fairly new; well, sort of new. New-ish; okay, I moved here from London in January 2016 but, due to other work commitments, it’s taken me this long to sort a private practice out. However, I am a psychotherapist and I’ve been working as one since 2004. Read more

Treating Depression

1st September 2015/in CBT, Confidence, Depression, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, Mental Health, Mind, Psychotherapy, REBT, Self-esteem, Skype Therapy, Stigma, Web Therapy, Work Stress/by Daniel Fryer

Last month I wrote about depression in the briefest of terms (click here). It’s a major contributor to mental health issues and is on the increase. More than a low mood or ‘the blues,’ depression can be severely disabling and a real struggle to get out of. However, you are not without help in that fight. Any and all of the following can and will have a positive effect. Read more

Why You Need to Give up Your Demands

20th June 2015/in Addictions, Alcohol, Anger, Anger Management, Anxiety, Bullying, CBT, Chronic Pain, Confidence, Cyber Bullying, Depression, Fear of flying, Frontpage Article, Gay, Goals, Habits, HR, Humour, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, Images, Insomnia, Jealousy, LGBTQIA, Men, Mental Health, Mind, News, Online Therapy, Pain Control, Panic Attacks, Panic Disorder, Phobias, Psychosexual Dysfunction, Psychotherapy, REBT, Relationships, Self-esteem, Skype Therapy, Stigma, Stop Smoking, Unconscious, Web Therapy, Weight Control, Work Stress/by Daniel Fryer

In Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT), the form of Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) that I advocate, we say that your demands are at the root of your psychological disturbance. But, what is a demand exactly, and how does it disturb you? Read more

Online Therapy: Counselling on Your Couch

9th June 2015/in Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, Mental Health, Mind, Online Therapy, Psychotherapy, REBT, Skype Therapy, Web Therapy/by Daniel Fryer

Someone asked me the other day if I offer therapy via Skype. I’ve written about the subject before (click here) and the answer is, “yes I do,” for two very good reasons. One: it’s just as effective as therapy delivered in person (as is telephone therapy for that matter) and, two: more and more people seem to like their psychotherapy and counseling delivered that way. Read more